This post has been a long time coming.. It is about letting drama consume your life.
I have learned a long time ago that the only way for drama to affect you, if for you to let it. This is true of sports, pageants, clubs, you name it! I have seen a ton of negativity on Facebook lately, some of which I completely understand. No one should talk about a child, there is no excuse for that..
Recently, at a big national pageant, a very well known pageant mom was caught talking about a contestant. The kicker was, the brother of the contestant was the one to hear everything that came out of this woman's mouth. AFTER the pageant was over, the mother of the girl being talked about went up to the woman and told her she was caught and asked to never mention her child again.. Case CLOSED.. the drama ended there.. There was no big Facebook war or any big drama to follow.
Here is my advice. Think twice before you talk about anyone.. I am a true believer in Karma... What you put out most certainly comes back to you. In the end, this is a HOBBY and something that is supposed to be a positive experience for children. Do not give yourself the reputation of a basher. It is one that will stay with you!!!
We can not let competition get to us.. NO title or placement is worth the negativity. The things that have been said about me throughout the years have been horrendous, however, I don't let it affect me. If I wasn't doing something right or wasn't doing well, no one would talk about me. Someone once told me, "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer." I disagree with this advice 100 percent.... By doing this you are allowing the unnecessary drama into your life! Surround yourselves with people who are only going to pull you higher, not drag you down.
AND food for thought... those who are constantly talking about others to you, are probably doing the same with others about you!!! When you find a true friend, CHERISH them.. They are hard to come by.
I cherish those who are loyal, kind, and who have proven their TRUE friendship.. I have completely stopped worrying about what others say about me. I am proud to say that I have come to the place in my life where I truly DO NOT CARE about negativity.. It feels amazing and I would recommend it to anyone!!!!
Sending out big love to anyone dealing with negativity now.. Just remember, it is up to you to eliminate it from your lives. Remove the stress and negativity and you will see just how beautiful life can be :) It is ok to cut people out if it means bringing peace to your life.. It may be a tough decision but you will see, maybe not right away, it is the right one!
Krisann <3
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